Men’s Ministry | Jesus Style



Jesus ministered to women.  He ministered to children.  He healed the sick, made the lame walk, and made the blind see.  Jesus fed the hungry, raised the dead, and radically changed all of eternity.  BUT, one thing that Jesus did very well that doesn’t get much press, even in the church . . . Jesus started a “Men’s Ministry”.

Okay, okay . . . I can almost hear the cringing now and before you blow up my email with theological corrections, I do understand and acknowledge that Jesus did a great deal more than just starting a men’s ministry.  In fact, he did much more than can even be recorded. (John 21:25).  My point is that Jesus did one thing that most churches don’t do very well, if at all.  Jesus invested His life into building a thriving men’s ministry . . . you probably know them as the 12 disciples.


Granted, there are hundreds of books that cover the topic of Men’s Ministry and many successful models to choose from; and I certainly don’t claim to have all of the answers, but there are some key elements that seem to be clear by looking at Jesus’ example of men’s discipleship.

    1. Jesus was a LEADER
      • A great leadership proverb to remember is:  “He who thinks he is leading, but finds that no one is following; is only out taking a walk.”  Jesus was a man that others were willing to follow.  Yes, Jesus was God in the flesh, but he was also a man that was tempted like the rest of us.  He lived a life of integrity and secured His influence over time.

    1. Jesus Started with a SMALL-GROUP
      • He could have started out with feeding the five thousand, gave a great keynote speech and then circulated a petition for people to join His cause.  No, Jesus found a few men and invited them to join Him on His journey.  In fact, Jesus started a men’s ministry with only twelve.  From that original “small-group”, Jesus impacted the entire world.

      • Jesus spent time with His men both “On-purpose” and “With-purpose”. He was not only intentional about the investment He made in His disciples lives, but he was consistent. Over time, Jesus proved himself over and over again.

    • Jesus spent a great deal of time with his men teaching them about the kingdom of God. By personal example and through his teaching ministry, Jesus gave his disciples a clear message that would shake the world on its foundation. Jesus also empowered his men to fulfill the task he gave them to do.


Yup, there is much more to it than that, but it’s not about finding the “magic bullet” or the perfect program because men are different everywhere you go.  Men’s ministry in the South may require a Saturday morning men’s breakfast with Biscuits and Gravy while guys in downtown LA get together over a business “Power Lunch” to be encouraged and equipped for marketplace ministry in their business.  It is absolutely NOT about finding the right program . . . it is about having the right PERSPECTIVE about who men are, what they need, and how to reach them where they are.


I would love to hear from you about what you are doing with the men in your church.  What is working and what isn’t.  My heart and passion is to come alongside the church to work with pastors and staff to help them reach the men in their community.  Let me know what I can do for you.